The peaceful picture of Meghan Markle adjusting to their life in Montecito is being questioned by conflicting stories about how well they are fitting into the community. While some neighbors compliment their charity work and friendly attitude, a local journalist describes a different situation, pointing out a noticeable difference in how the couple interacts with those around them.
As found by Express, a Montecito journalist claims that Meghan Markle keeps a very quiet presence and is seldom seen taking part in local activities. This journalist suggests that she carefully manages her public image, focusing more on appearances and statements than on real connections with the community.
He mentions that she does not attend local events or show much involvement in neighborhood happenings, which he contrasts with her husband, who seems more engaged. The journalist points to a specific example to illustrate this perceived detachment. He says an older local historian tried to give Meghan a documentary about the area’s history but could not get past the gates of their property.
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The journalist sees this as a sign of Meghan’s lack of openness and engagement. This adds to a growing feeling that the couple is distant from their neighbors, creating an impression of coldness that overshadows their charitable work.
The journalist neighbor said there was a clear difference between how Meghan and Harry interact with the public. While Meghan stays mostly out of sight and seems disconnected from community life, Prince Harry is said to be much more visible and friendly. He has often been seen in local businesses, chatting with neighbors and showing a warm and welcoming attitude. This contrast in behavior has led the journalist to believe that Harry feels more comfortable and at home in Montecito than his wife does.
The journalist described Harry as keeping his down-to-earth personality, often seen casually talking to residents, biking in the hills, or simply enjoying what the area has to offer. This noticeable difference in the couple’s public behavior adds to the idea that the Duchess is not fully connected to her new community.
The journalist said, “He is always charming, approachable, with that very recognisable Windsor accent. He smiles, shakes hands, willingly exchanges a few words. We’ve seen him at the beach, in an organic coffee shop, or cycling in the hills.” This matches the description many have made of the prince.
“Harry has kept his good-natured side. We feel that he is more at ease here, even with his personal struggles… Meghan, on the other hand, is practically invisible. She’s there, of course, but she shows herself very little. Her relationship with Montecito is distant, shall we say.”
Not everyone shares these negative views. Other neighbors gave a much more favorable impression of the Sussexes’ involvement in the neighborhood. For example, a well-known actress has spoken positively about the couple, praising their active role in charity work and their efforts to become part of the community. This describes them as helpful and engaged neighbors, which is very different from the journalist’s portrayal of Meghan as distant and unapproachable.
The house they live in this neighborhood is the same one using the Sussex name.
The actress even shared a personal story where she saw the couple warmly greeting a neighbor, ing the idea that they are friendly and involved. The disagreement between these s suggests there may be a gap between how the couple wants to be seen and how some residents actually view them.
Published: May 30, 2025 11:58 am